Monthly Archives: February 2014


Happy Valentine’s Day to all the lovers out there! Thank you to Tamara for this V’day meme.Enjoy!

1)How do you typically celebrate Valentine’s Day?
I usually buy Bubba a large box of chocolates and a frilly pink card.

2)Do you like to get A) chocolates B) flowers C) a sweet card or D)all of the above?
I’m all about sentiment so a sweet card is good enough for me.

3)Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”? If not,would you at least cuddle on Valentine’s Day?
I’m a very affectionate person so I’m definitely a cuddler!

4)What is your favorite movie about love or with a love story?
My favorite movies regarding love is probably Love in the Time of Cholera and Frieda

5)Do you believe in “love at first sight”?Did it happen to you?
I do believe in love at first sight but no its never happened to me.

6)Do you believe love can conquer all things?
I don’t know.I have no positive examples of true love in my life,so I can’t say.

7)What is ONE of the main things you love about your S.O.(significant other)
I love a man who has ambition and is willing to work hard to get what he wants…including me!

8)If you could have the perfect Valentine’s date,what would you and your loved one do?
I would love to go to a dimly lit nice restaurant ib Manhattan,have a nice glass of red wine,then take a romantic stroll through Central Park(y’all know I don’t do heels or pumps)

9)Tell me about your first crush!
My first crush was on Michael Jackson.I saw his music video for ‘Scream’ for the first time and I just…fell in love.

10)Do you have any embarrassing or horror dating stories?
Yep. I started talking to a man I met on a bus.He and I had great phone conversations for about a month.I was finally ready to go out with him when I received a phone call from a woman.She wasn’t hostile in any way,but she did let me know that the guy was her husband and had been for 20+ years! I was horrified,I apologized and assured her I had no cludme he was married.She said he had been unfaithful to her their entire marriage and she wasn’t mad at me at all.Awkward!

11)Favorite flower?
I hate flowers.All of my memories of flowers are associated with funerals.

12)What’s the first type of chocolate you hope for when you reach into a box of chocolate?
Something with a caramel center. I don’t care for fruit centered candy.

13)Favorite love song?
That’s a tough one. I ‘m going to say Just Because by Anita Baker.Its the song I want to be the first dance song when I get married.

14)What is the best break up song?
Another tough one. Don’t You(Forget About Me) by Simple Minds.Remember the theme song to The Breakfast Club?

15)Favorite celebrity couple?
I have no faith in celeb couples.

16)Overall,are you pro or anti Valentine’s Day?
Definitely pro.I’m a sucker for love and romance and showing it in a big way.

17)If someone did that “Say Anything” boombox thing outside your window,would you be into it,or call the police?
I’m not sure what this mean but if its a showcase of love,I’m all for it.

18)First thing you notice about the objects of your affection?
Their smile definitely! My fave smiles belong to Michael Jackson,Tyler Perry,and Bubba(my daughter).

19)What’s the best thing you’ve ever gotten for Valentine’s Day?
There is a tie for best gift. In 8th grade,my boyfriend gave me the deluxe edition of Michael Jackson’s HIStory CD. In 9th grade, my crush gave me a Hello Kitty charm bracelet. He got down on one knee(in front of the entire class), asked me to be his girlfriend while putting the bracelet on my wrist. We are still really close friends!

American Horror Story: My Interpretation


I have become a big fan of the American Horror Story series. I just wrapped up the third season( AHS:Coven) which was the first season I watched of the show.For the last few days,I’ve been catching up with Season One.I don’t want to give it away for those of you who may not have seen it,but I’ll give a brief synopsis for you.

A family moves into a beautiful but old house that has a dark history behind it.I know,I know, it sounds like a lot of other movies but it does have its own twist on it.I won’t go into detail about it but the sad thing about it was that anyone who dies on the house’s premises is stuck there( their spirit is,not their body) and they are forced to watch other people make memories there. I watch a couple other shows about ghosts and hauntings( Paranormal Witness, Celebrity Ghost Stories,My Ghost Story,The Haunting Of…) and it is widely believed that when people die  of a violent death or with unresolved issues,their spirit remains in the place where they died.Sometimes they know they are no longer living,sometimes they don’t.

This made me think of my mother.She did not die a violent death but she and I did have unresolved issues and she passed away in my home.Sometimes I feel her  in the house.Nothing weird or spooky ever happens,but sometimes I’ll be washing dishes and I can feel her staring at me from the couch,like she did when she was alive.Or when I’m in my room, I feel her staring at me from the doorway silently like she did before.I wonder if she watches me as I go about my day.

Does she see me when I am laughing and playing with her granddaughter?Does she hear me and X reminiscing about her bad singing and strange taste in movies?Does she comfort me when I mourn her? Is she proud of the fact that I am trying to set a good example for X?Did she feel the pride I felt when Bubba recited her MLK speech? Does she know I regret every mean or hurtful thing I ever said/did to her? I wonder…